Still not entirely sure that cats aren’t a mass hallucination we’re all having
Via Fat Heffalump
Oh—you wouldn’t date a girl who’s ever been a stripper?
In that case, I wouldn’t date a guy who’s ever been to a strip club.
Oh—you wouldn’t date a girl who’s ever done porn?
In that case, I wouldn’t date a guy who’s ever watched porn.
You’re the reason we exist.
You’re the demand to our supply.
If you disdain sex workers, don’t you dare consume our labor.
As they say in the industry, “People jack off with the left hand and point with the right.”–
No I fucking LOVE this.
This is amazing.Via retinal stan
I’ve been in the same band for two and a half years. It’s a reggae band and being in it has given me lots of experience and exposure.
Recently I have not been feeling as though the rest of the band members believe myself OR the other singer to be “full fledged members” of the band. They have “original band member” meetings in which they make decisions without consulting us. We have both been in the band over two hears. At this point after all that time one would assume that we would be “in” so to speak.
We (myself and the other singer who happens to be my best friend) are the front-women of the band. We’re the face. We’re the voices. As much as I love my band, a few of them leave some things to be desired. So when people come to hear our band, it’s Tammy and myself they come to hear. They don’t come to hear the fantastic bass player, or the drummer, or the rhythm guitar. I try to be as humble as possible, but when I say that we are what is keeping the band afloat I’m not exaggerating.
Them having these secret meetings wouldn’t bother me if any of us were getting paid. All of the money we make goes into a ‘band fund’ that is used to record. Which we haven’t really done. So I have barely seen any of where this money is. I don’t even know how much is in there. They could be pocketing this for all I know! If they were paying me? I would have no problem sucking it up and doing what they tell me. Because this is not the case, I’m not cool with how things are happening. They make demands on my time and I feel like they’re using me to pad their bank accounts.
This all frustrates me because I have put a lot of my heart and soul into my last two years with this band but I feel like I get nothing back.
I now have other options. And I’m looking to start my own unit. So I’m now at a crossroads:
Do I try and stick it out with these guys that I’ve worked so hard with?
Or do I take a deep breath and let it go? I was ready to quit a week ago. But there’s one member of the band that I have a ridiculous amount of respect for (he’s got nothing to do with the money and nothing to do with planning these exclusive meetings). I don’t know if I can bear to let him down.
This decision is so hard.
Anyone care to shed some light on the situation for me?
HOW LONG IS IT GOING TO TAKE YOU TO FIGURE THIS ONE OUT LIKE SERIOUSLY IT’S BEEN OVER 10 YEARS.